Bouncing Back - John Calipari

I'm buying this book once it comes out.

"You need to stay positive. You want to hold a grudge, to be vicious to those who did this to you. If you’re obsessed with that, you lose. Be obsessed with positive thoughts. Conduct the phone call test — Sam, pay attention to your phone calls with friends. There are those who you talk to who make you feel good. But there’s one person who, every time you talk to them, they’re negative. We all know people like that. Do you really want to talk to them? No. Don’t be that person.

You need to let go and move on. Look in the mirror and say, “Everything I’m going to do today will be positive. I’ll be upbeat when people talk to me.” You’ll notice it’ll change how people look at you and talk about you. You want to be able to draw people to you because, at some level, someone is going to have to reach out and help."