the darkness in others

Imagine you have a black friend and he gets you so mad to the point where you'll think of anything you can to hurt him... Will you take it to that place??

I don't think I would but I wonder. Because I can be driven to madness sometimes but there's a restrictor plate on that motor. A day or so back, someone tried to turn my inner thoughts, and emotions, and vulnerability I showed to them and turned it on me to try and hurt me.

i was completely caught off guard because if this is a topic on someone's mind, then it shouldn't be brought up in a heated moment. It doesn't fit. And I'm speechless...