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Different parts of your personality come out and now that's how people perceive you. People do their best to show off the parts of their personality to show the parts that they want people to see in them. I'm not sure if I've blogged on this topic already. But if people see you as a calming influence then that's what you become. It works another way too. People can see the parts of you that you're not so comfortable with and then that's what you are.