i am, whatever you say i am

... and if i wasn't, then why would you say i am??

People call me pushy, cocky, opinionated, judgmental, stubborn, nosy, and lazy. I call them my 7 dwarfs. I wouldn't shy away from them. I wouldn't even pull out my thesaurus to So if people have that perception of then I obviously acted that way at some point even if it was for a moment. Then, at least for me, I start to become that person. I'm not really worried if people see me that way. Most of the people that get to know me and love always say the same thing; I always thought you were , but your so different. I have to go to the oldest page in the villain handbook, I'm misunderstood.

It's funny how much of Marketing stuff is psychological and how primal we are. We categorize people, items, products, everything in our minds consciously and sub-conciously. It's how we process data and protect ourselves. If you say that guy is whatever than you've put a mark on him placed in a file cabinet in your head. But I've learned over the years to take the next step and think about why people do the things they do.

If I'm nosy, that maybe I'm interested in someone or something and possibly I can help or be of assistance. And if I'm cocky maybe I feel that my swag is phenomenal, but I never use it put anyone else down, rather to pick people up.

Well, that's how the story seems to always go. All I ask of others is that before you assume that I'm doing something, or I am something ask me first. Because I'll tell you. Even when I'm being a JACKASS.