what the eff??

This is an observation I've noticed that happens to men in relationships. It makes you wonder what's going on, what are you doing in a relationship? Any guy who is in relationship or has been in a relationship knows this. Girls somehow can sense that a guy is taken and something goes off in their mind. Now this isn't all girls... And it will be some girls who the guy might have even asked out before who rejected him who now all of a sudden have found interest in said guy. Somehow the guy becomes way more attractive then he was when he was single and now girls want to tell him so in their own way.

I guess you always want what you can't have. And the grass is always greener on the other side. I'm wondering if girls go through the same thing. The same thing meaning that all of a sudden you have so many options IF you were single. Ones that didn't present themselves when you were single.

Thats whats good about single life, the flexibility, the freedom, the choices that you can make without thinking about someone. But you do have to think about yourself and sometimes thats even harder.

Sometimes I see my friends, couples. I hang out with them and I think to myself, why do I want that? It seems so boring and conventional. But on the surface thats it looks like. You can't look at someone's life or a observe someone and say you know enough to make a judgement.

But as wonderful as it is to be single, and pretty eligble I would say, it's not perfect. It's incredible to have choices, but its even more amazing to be chosen...